Thursday, December 26, 2013

11/11/13

To my dear Family.
 
Whew, I bore my testimony this passed week in Zone Conference as a "departing missionary." Gross. We won the gold plates for our car though! That was nice! I get 100 extra miles for the rest of my mission.
 
Glen came to church this week! Thank you for all your prayers about him! He loved it. We took him on a church tour right after sacrament meeting but then he had to go to work. So he'll likely be baptized on the 30th of November! He plans to come to all 3 meetings this coming week.
 
Angie and Pete also came to church yesterday! I gave a talk and apparently they were there for the talk! They had to leave right after unfortunately. A less active named David also came to church yesterday! He was welcomed so well. ELDER NEWMAN CHALLENGED DAVID'S MOM TO COME TO CHURCH WITHOUT ME EVEN HAVING TO TELL HIM TO!!!! AHHH! IT WAS GREAT!
 
That's scary to hear about Uncle Gary. Has anyone put him on the rolls of the temple? I'll be praying for him. Please tell him that I love him. He's doing ok now though? When are all of the proceedures going to happen for him? Please keep me posted!
 
Thanks to you mom, and Elizabeth and Dad for emailing/writing me this week. Dad, I did get your letter on Thursday this last week. Thank you! I hope all is going well for you.
 
I love you all!

11/4/13

This week was pretty exciting. Of course the most exciting was Ashley's baptism. I'm still a little astounded that she actually chose to be baptized! She chose Elder Butt to baptize her which was even more exciting because he was able to come to the baptism. EVERYONE CAME. President Eaton came, President Nelson (Stake President), President Mckinney (Second Counselor in Mission Presidency), Bishop Johnson, and four investigators plus probably 6+ families from the ward. One of those families has 8 children. Then there were 8 missionaries each set with an investigator and then there was Ashley and her mom and grandmother. Her grandmother is a member. Her mom is not. But she agreed to meet with us tommorrow to learn more!
 
The other great thing that happened this week was when we taught Glenn and his family after the baptism. He has been kind of flakey lately, even though his member wife tells us "No, really, he loves you guys and he really feels inspired every time you come over." I usually don't buy that. But yesterday he said "Elder Lovell, when do you go home?" and I told him I went home at the beginning of January. He said "Elder, you can bet I'll be baptized before then. I felt something tonight at you spoke. It's hard to describe." He told his wife "Its just not good for us to be in two different churches."
 
Our ward council turned around! Wow! The goings on in this ward council are the same ones that happened in Dash Point just before the work took off! Plus we're cleaning our appartment again today which is really nice. I feel like I had the most clarity of mind when the appartment was clean.
 
I love Bishop Johnson. He is awesome and stays in close contact with us. He told us "Elders I should be being the fellowship you bring to every new investigator for the first time!" Woah! I cannot believe how willing he is!
 
We found two new investigators this week. Please pray for them.
 
- Jeremy (yes I told him I have a brother with that name)
and
- Aerin. She is trying to get an answer about the book of Mormon! Pray for her. Especially that she'll come to church this week!  
 
I love you all!

10/28/13

Thank you for all your prayers about Ashley. You know, as I mentioned before, it's really nice having Elder Butt as a Zone Leader for many reasons, but one of the main reasons is that I can talk to him about the area since he served here last transfer. We have a weekly planning meeting every Thursday. It's usually just in a companionship, but at the beginning of the transfer, I asked the Zone Leaders if they could be part of this passed weeks weekly planning so that I could talk with Elder Butt about the area. I was looking forward to it this whole week so I could just jokingly say to Elder Butt, "I am going to 'drop' all your investigators! None of them are progressing!" But the Lord works His miracles and great things happen. So it was with Ashley:
 
I haven't done much with Ashley except say to her "Did you read yesterday?" and if she says "Yes." I ask her about what she read and we continue. Then I say "Did you pray about the book of Mormon yesterday?" and she usually replies "No. I don't know enough about it yet." So then I just testify about prayer and how it helps and we leave. I am pretty sure she was getting sick of hearing about prayer.
 
Well, it turns out, we had dinner set up with President Mckinney (2nd Counselor in the Mission Presidency) and his wife on Tuesday. Sister Mckinney felt that she was going to be outnumbered if there were two other males plus her husband so she invited Ashley and her member grandmother over. Could things become any more perfect? I texted President Mckinney and said "May we come 15 minutes early and plan a lesson with you to teach Ashley?" He agreed. I told President Mckinney, "Ok, the only thing we really need you to do is bear testimony when we ask you to, and then it would be most helpful if you could extend an open invitation to have Ashley and her Grandma over for the rest of her lessons." He agreed to do that.
 
We taught again about prayer. And asked both Ashley and her Grandmother to read and pray as a family. The Mckinneys testified about how reading and praying together has strengthened them, and how they found time to do it in their busy schedules. Ashley said the closing prayer.
 
I was still very cynical at this point, thinking she just wasn't going to put her heart into this. So I told Elder Newman "We have got to teach her why the church is different than any other church! She needs to feel more driven to find this stuff out!" So we set to work the next morning. I drilled him on teaching the Restoration until he got sort of frustrated with me and didn't want to role play anymore. I let him relax for a little bit and then we set back to planning for Ashley. He was going to teach "God is our loving Heavenly Father" and "The Gospel blesses Families" which are the first two points of the Restoration. I told Elder Newman "Remember, she already knows those two points so you don't need to explain them in great detail." Those were the only two points we role played during the role plays I previously mentioned and I could see why just doing those two points could easily frustrate anyone. Anyway. Elder Newman got them down pat and that would have let me have be able to teach about prophets after. Anywho. We get to the Mckinneys that day and we start teaching Ashley the Restoration. Elder Newman clearly and simply tells her that God is her loving Heavenly Father and explains how the Gospel Blesses our families. We then asked the Mckinney family to bear their testimony about how the Gospel blessed their families. Ashley then said something totally unexpected,
 
"I actually can really relate to that." Her face turned red and she started to tell us a story about her brother that was really touching that happened just days before. She started to cry. I was in shock. She concluded her story by saying,
 
"And it's all thanks to you guys for telling me to pray. God answered my prayers."
 
I said "Is it alright with everyone if we end the meeting now?" and we did. Ashley left with the spirit. On the way out, Elder Newman asked, "How are you feeling about your baptism on November 2nd?"
 
"I am feeling pretty good about it!" She replied. We then set up another return appointment and left."
 
I was baffled! "I didn't even do anything!" I thought to myself and laughed. "I didn't even get to talk about prophets!"

It was a great experience. She came to church and even attended sunday school, but now we have to get her to attend releif society. 

Your prayers work! Please pray for Glenn! He's an investigator that we invited to be baptized this passed week. He is scheduled for the 16 of November! 

If you can also pray for Angie, that would be great. 

Other than that, our appartment is clean! And I am loving that! It's actually really nice as long as it is clean! The only memorable but humorous negative is that I had a dream this week, in fact last night, that I was in our living room in our apartment, and some people broke in and kidnapped me. Their boss was the twin of President Eaton, and they sat me down in front of this twin and he described to me, just as politely and calmly as President Eaton would, that they were going to make me study anti-mormon material and have me send home an essay of each book I read. The dream never actually came to that. But what I do remember is that I was still to e-mail home every monday and still use myldsmail.net
 
. In my mind I was thinking "I cannot wait to e-mail my family and let them know whats going on! Not only am I scared out of my wits, but this is a REAL missionary story! Who else has this happen?" 

I love you all. Have a great week! I'll send reply your e-mails now!

10/21/13

Dear Family,

Thank you again for the great e-mails. 

This week, Elder Newman and I totally cleaned out the appartment, Gross. It was gross. I had the biggest trash pile in my whole mission. it looks so much better now and it doesnt make me feel clausterphobic. Or however you spell that. 

This ward is a tough one. I have to totally change my style of missionary work to adjust to this one. Usually, I'm kind of a hybrid to a "Go-get'm" missionary and a "Planning missionary," The "Go-get'm" Missionaries through planning to the wind. I don't like that. But I also don't like spending all my time in the appartment looking at member names all day and wondering if they're active. In this ward, you're lucky if a house isn't in a gated community or the spacing between two houses isn't an acre. So you're spending a great deal of time working with members and trying to find out who is inactive and has nonmember family. 

My zone leader, Elder Butt, (terrible name, but I'm not kidding.) is great because he served here. What's even better is that he's on Trazadone. He gets it! He called me today after I went to LDS Family Services and we talked about the weird thoughts we both have had and we were dying laughing. He's great. 

Elder Newman gets frustrated sometimes, but it's only a hint of frustration. Most of the time he is just so happy-go-lucky. When he smiles it is such a perfectly happy smile that it looks like a character off of a cartoon. There's nothing fake about him. He is totally, 100% genuine. 

 The neat thing about Lake Tapps is that it surrounds a nice big calm lake. I just want to throw a rock in it and see how far I can watch it ripple. 

Please pray for Ashley. Her Grandma is LDS. She has no hold ups and could be baptized on November 2nd. She just for some reason doesn't see why it's necessary or perhaps doesn't know why religion is necessary. She is mostly waiting to read more in the Book of Mormon to actually pray about it specifically. 

Unfortunately, I have to go soon, I'll respond to each of you in your own letters! Love you!

10/16/13

Mom, no worries, I am ok. I am now in Lake Tapps in Sumner Washington. I am here with Elder Newman, who will pleasantly and politely tell you "I have Asburgers." And he'll make sure you pronounce it just right. I is very high functioning. In fact, I told President Eaton in my letter today that I feel he could easily make a great senior companion next transfer, but hopefully I can help him be ready to train.
I have not seen much of Lake Tapps yet. But the work here is booming. Elder (excuse me for laughing) Butt was Elder Newman's previous companion and is now a Zone Leader here in Puyallup. I love Elder Butt. He is great, he is probably a little less nervous to be Zone Leader than I am to be district leader again. 

I really really really miss Elder Basilius and Elder Garner. 

I'm going to attempt to answer all of your questions. Thank you for the many E-mails today! Never before have they been so needed! 

Dad, I got your E-mail and your note thank you. The weird thing about the Trazadone is that it makes me really tired, but... it doesn't seem to help me sleep. Where as if I take an Ibuprofien for leg pains, I sleep like a champion. I love you so much. Thank you for taking such good care of me. How is work and the yard and your home teaching families? How many home teaching families do you have? Are any less-active? Who is your companion? I am pretty excited to go home teaching when I get home. Who are the missionaries in the Ward now? When was the last baptism? Are they happy? Where does their area cover? Is one of them a district Leader? Sorry lots of questions.

Mom, I think you have the most questions: I did recieve the gloves. Not the two white shirts. Now that I am transferred here, I cannot follow up with Bryson Lovell. I will write Elder Basilius when I can and see if he'll keep going over to try and get into contact with Bryson and see if he will let us help him with Family History. Ok, so that name I sent home, here is the chain:

David Thomas Cates Jr.'s Mom (Ruth Carter) has a mom named Effie Geneva Liscomb Who's Mom is Martha Estes who's Dad is Irvin Estes, Whos dad is Canada Estes, Who's Dad is Thomas Estes who is the one that I sent to you in the mail. So what is that? your Greatx7 Grandfather? I have no idea. 

I did recieve the halloween stuff in Enumclaw! Thank you so much! We put it up and I have pictures of it! Love you!

10/7/13

Dear Family,
 
That was a great conference. I left inspired for myself and investigators. One thing that I liked about my note taking, that I have never done before, is marking distinct impressions that came from the spirit. Afterwards, I compiled all those impressions into one of my small notepads from lizzy. I now have two pages packed full of revelation from the spirit. I then took what I learned from the spirit and extracted action items from now until next conference. It is an encouraging thing because it makes me feel like a doer of the word and not a hearer only. Thats just an idea that I found helpful.
 
I have a quick thought I'd like to share with all of you. Here is a bit of revelation that came to me while listening to Elder Eyring's talk during the General Priesthood session (This is just as exciting as it is sacred):
 
I wrote: "Does all this counsel seem overwhelming? That's why loving the Lord thy God is the First commandment, Loving the Lord will draw you towards fulfilling your calling and as such you will grow closer to him and apply what you've learned."
 
It is extremely important to hold a calling in the church. I don't know of any better way to apply the teachings we learn from the Savior, Prophets, Apostles, and Local Leaders than by recieving and magnifying a calling in the church.
 
This revelation the Holy Ghost sent me was esspecially exciting because President Eyring spoke in conference the next morning spoke about the first commandment in the law and about how having a calling helps us to do that. 

Friday Evening, we spoke to many people to no avail. At last, at long last it was time to go in to plan. But Elder Basilius saw a man just getting out of his car down the street, not even a block away. We walked up to him and Elder Basilius introduced himself "Hi, I am Elder Basilius." 

"I'm Elder Lovell." I said. 

"Lovell?" Said the man. "How's that spelled?"

"Love with two 'L's' on the end."

"That's my last name too!" He said. 

"Woah, where are you from?" I asked.

"South Dakota."

I dont think there's any close relation but it is pretty cool. That's not the only thing that was cool about that though. He told us that he was so confused about religion, he has been searching and doesn't know what to believe. He said he really appreciated us stopping by. I asked if he would come on a church tour with us. He said, "Sure, stop by in a few days and set something up. Can I bring my family too? They will probably want to come." We told him we would be back very soon. Elder Basilius and I then raced to the car to get home on time. We both got in the car with our jaws dropped. 

I broke the silence "What was that? The bone the the teachers throw you in the MTC when your life is going terribly?" 

"Seriously!" He said, "That was so weird. I have NEVER had any experience like that. I just cannot believe that happened. Weird. That was so weird! His name is Lovell, he is confused, he has a broken arm that keeps him from going to work, he wants to bring his family on a church tour? Wow. You're going to attend a family member's baptism." 

We laughed all the way home. 

We got back in contact with Denise. We have an appointment with her on Thursday at 1:00. PLEASE PRAY FOR THAT. And pray for Brother Lovell!

9/23/13

Dear Family,
 
Kayla Ton was baptized on Saturday! I got to baptize her! Thank you for your prayers! It was probably the most smooth baptism I have ever experienced on my mission. I don't know how many of you remember the last time I baptized someone. It was done four times. The font had a leak and was slowly draining. The suit for the baptizee was to small for her to bend the legs. She ended up having to kneel down so I could baptize her face first into the water. You might ask how that was possible. I am still not sure to this day. However, with Kayla's baptism, I just remember praying for the baptism to go smoothly and then choosing to believe that God would answer my prayer and exhibit faith by not talking about how much I was worried about it. It went perfectly.
 
Did all of you know that I am the last of my kind? The way each of you did missionary work, along with me, is coming to an end. It is anticipated that at the beginning of next year, we will begin to recieve digital devices. From rumor, it sounds like Ipads will be one of those devices. From President Eaton, what I know is that we will actively be using Facebook and update our own page. From church headquarters, I understand that church buildings will be open during most of the day and missionaries will be posted in them to conduct church tours for passers-by. During those early morning hours, I assume that that is when missionaries will do finding through facebook. It is exciting to be the last of my kind that tracted for my full mission. 

The Maple Valley Zone Rises! It has been fun to be a Zone Leader here. I feel very close to the District Leaders. I feel like they're really begining to understand what we expect from them. There is a senior couple missionary companionship, Elder and Sister Logan, who taught 20 other lessons aside from lessons taught with a member present or Recent Convert/ Less Active. Unfortunately, it is their last week in our zone and they will be moving to Graham Stake by next Monday. Hopefully we're seeing a net increase of numbers in the zone due to greater determination from the missionaries, and our strong relationship with the district leaders and that is not just a "flash in the pan" as President Eaton would say. 

I was listening Second-Hand to the Becomming A Missionary talk by Elder Bednar while Elder Basilius watched the program on the DVD player in the living room. It has some great points in it. In face I just sent a link of it to Spencer, a friend of mine in our stake who e-mailed me and is preparing for missionary service. I'd recommend each of you watch it. It made me realize even more that my missionary service is not over after I am released, nor should it have begun when I entered the MTC. I should have been, and I think I had a pretty good handle on, becomming a missionary before I became a full-time missionary. Do all of you remember our investigator Ken Harmon? His experience and conversion is a prime example of why we should be a missionary and not just serve a mission. I challenge each of you to watch it this week.